I am married and travel a great deal for work, is cyber sex or phone sex wrong?


I was a married and I am traveling a lot for work. Is cybersex or phone sex with someone wrong if I take no intention of actually personally? If it is not only a mutual release between 2 adults? “I’m married and I travel a lot for work. Is cybersex or phone sex with someone wrong if I take no intention of actually personally? If it is not only a mutual release between 2 adults? I’ve tried, my wife, either in cycber or phone sex and she refuses to speak.

9 Comments to "I am married and travel a great deal for work, is cyber sex or phone sex wrong?"

  1. A's Gravatar A
    March 13, 2010 - 1:43 pm | Permalink

    It’s very wrong. Have phone sex with your wife!

  2. Tsi's Gravatar Tsi
    March 13, 2010 - 1:49 pm | Permalink

    We’ll I can understand what you mean. While albeit it is a bit strange, your not cheating on your wife. Just relax, do what you gotta do from actually cheating on your wife. Be a good husband, you got this.

  3. PrinceValiant66's Gravatar PrinceValiant66
    March 13, 2010 - 2:40 pm | Permalink

    I once had cyber sex with a girl and later on i found out it was the old man from down the road.

  4. jenandscree's Gravatar jenandscree
    March 13, 2010 - 2:41 pm | Permalink

    If it’s not with your wife, definitely wrong! Get your priorities straight!

  5. Ahepatsy's Gravatar Ahepatsy
    March 13, 2010 - 3:36 pm | Permalink

    I can understand why the cybersex or phone sex seems like a good idea but if you are going to do something like that make sure it’s with your wife… and who knows maybe it will give you some ideas for when you get back…

  6. Sarah T's Gravatar Sarah T
    March 13, 2010 - 3:56 pm | Permalink

    I think it is rather shady. You’re married and you should be doing those things with the one you love, and gave your life to. Spice up your marriage and do some spicy stuff with your wife instead of somebody you don’t know!

  7. L's Gravatar L
    March 13, 2010 - 4:22 pm | Permalink

    Would you like your wife to have phone sex (or sex of any kind) with other men?

    A good husband would definitely be against it. A good husband will also recognize that it is wrong for him to have sex of any kind with anyone but his wife. Save your “release” for her!

  8. Yazid H's Gravatar Yazid H
    March 13, 2010 - 4:37 pm | Permalink

    common man, go back to high school, masturbate!

  9. skyla2186's Gravatar skyla2186
    March 13, 2010 - 4:52 pm | Permalink

    I would try to talk to her about it, some women just need some prodding/coaxing and they’ll do it…

    There’s nothing wrong with phone sex or cyber sex, just the only problem here is that it can become kind of a recourse for some married men and they end up taking it home with them. Now doing it alone in your basement while your wife and kids are asleep would be kind of weird, lol. I wouldn’t do it a lot, but obviously if its just cyber “sex” and you only do a few times I’d say its *okay*. I’d say no to the phone deal altogether, though.

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